How To Get Your Ex Back – 3 Step Plan

The Rules Revisited I’ve dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female’s ignorance of the male mindset. At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex. Saturday, February 23, Why You Can’t Get the Men You Want Most women who complain that they “don’t get any attention from men” actually mean that they don’t get attention from the men they want.

Women tend to be aware of and rate their looks fairly accurately. I know this because a lot of readers send me pictures saying “I think I am an X out of 10 , can you tell me what I really am?

Years later, when I left an ugly relationship, I went to the other extreme and became outspoken about everything. My perspective on conflict resolution was that one person won and one person lost in the end.

Some bits are looked upon with smiles, others with cringes. Everyone has been burned, whether it was emotionally, physically, mentally, financially, or any other —ly one can think of. I think we can all agree in saying that getting burned sucks, especially when coming from someone that was trusted, and it can be some of the worst hurt one can experience. The betrayal is brutal and the pain of it can linger way too long…but only if we let it.

Do not allow past hurts damage the present and ultimately the future; allow the lovely virtues that are Faith, Hope and Patience to combat the crippling faults that are Doubt, Despair and Anger. Funny things like learning how to drive a manual to my love of Kurt Vonnegut novels I can pinpoint to a past relationship I had with an interesting dude.

I carry with me heavier life lessons as well. I learned that my happiness is just as important and even though I may not be precious to the world, I am precious to me. I learned that I actually do care about spirituality. It is simply a relationship between the self and the Universe, no matter what one believes in, be it Jesus Christ, J. No matter how much one boyfriend and I fought, we could still find happiness in swapping books we read.

Another boyfriend and I never really fought at all, but it hurt me that while I could learn to share his enthusiasm for his interests, he refused to share in my interests. I learned that while easy-going, frictionless relationships are loads better than drama-filled, abusive relationships, I still need excitement and passion. Complacency and repetitious routine only works for so long; spontaneity and a sense of adventure are requirements in a relationship, not perks, and there is a happy medium to be cultivated and refined.