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It depends on how long they dated, how the friend feels about them now, how close you are to your friend, and how strongly you feel for the ex. A crush can be a difficult thing to live with. When you really like someone and keep hoping they will ask you out it can hurt to think that one of your friends would even consider going on a date with them. However, I think it is time to put the crush in a different perspective. That totally hurts and is a bummer but the truth can also lead to healing and get you back on track for a real relationship rather than a dead-end crush. It might hurt to see your friend flirt with or date the person, but the mature thing is to find a way to be happy for them. If you need to step back from the friendship for a while because it is too hard that is understandable but be fair and upfront about your feelings. For example, if you feel that you have shared too much with your friend about the crush and your friend dating your crush would hurt too much than be honest but also ask them how strongly they feel for the person and if the other person seems to be reciprocating.