WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BEST FRIEND IS CRUSHING ON YOUR CRUSH

Next My “best friend” dating my crush? So- brief back story.. My “best friend” Nicole and I became roommates after the love of my life broke my heart. He’d gone off to date what I thought was my best girl friend. Obviously, that friendship ended. We grew very close in a very short period of time.

 · My best friend is the most important person in my life. We’re so alike it’s no wonder that I developed a crush on him. I didn’t see what she saw in him at first, but the more I got to know him the more my feelings ://

It happens all the time! For me it was always: How have I never noticed those eyes before?! I think it adds much perspective on life, and helps us learn more about ourselves. But these friendships do come with this difficulty: At some point, almost every guy-girl friendship will lead to at least one of the individuals wondering if they like each other as more than friends.

I feel like I really, really like this person, but it could totally ruin our friendship if we try this and it goes south. So what do I do??