Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong Men

They probably told you how different you were to anyone else they’ve dated, how you were “the one,” and you two were “meant to be. They spotted you, and they wanted to use you as their source of supply, and so turned on the charm using a technique called love bombing. It’s when someone makes you feel like you’re the most important person in the world, and they must be the one for you because they seem so perfect.

1. “When their prior relationships that you know of were ALWAYS the other person at fault/they refer to all of their prior relationships or exes as ‘crazy’.

Would be nice to additionally have a suggestion on how to be more self-aware in order to thwart these behaviours. Surely people dont WANT to be mean. Jack Wood I read this and now I know better how to look like a good person. Fascists like the people who wrote this. Grow the fuck up, and stop trying to make everyone as despicable and pathetic as you are — the world and everything in it contains more than one very specific shade of white and one very specific shade of black.

My mom is an abusive piece of shit — I never talk to her. That makes me a better person than the poor one who raised me, and for no reason am I obligated to treat well an abuser, no matter what name-tag they wear. The world is not black and white. This was obviously written by a basic white bitch when I got to the post about hating people who know they are nice… um… that makes YOU a shitty person? What is wrong with that? Not everyone was raised in japan where you self deprecate in response to compliments, and not everyone lives a self loathing life and considers that acceptable.

Grow the fuck up. Harry Sounds like you identify a little too closely with the traits on this list.