How Often Should You Be Calling Her

Last week I spoke with Vanessa, a single-mother in her early thirties. She has been dating the same guy off and on for over 2 years. They have a great time with each other, have many common interests and rarely fight. After getting more information it started to become clear to me why Vanessa is in this predicament:

Dating or seeing someone, is a whole different story. When you are just seeing someone it eventually progresses to has such. When things are fresh and new, you don’t want to smutter the person.

You can try to rationalize why girls are denying your advances and ignoring you. And when you finally realize the truth, you refuse to let go. I should dodge him, not hang out, and frustrate the hell out of him! Or you might message a girl, she briefly responds, and then suddenly…radio silence. So you start scrambling for a way to get a reply.

Next time, work on your in-person communication. She clearly knows you want to hang out. She can reach out to you if she changes her mind. She cancels on plans multiple times I understand unexpected occurrences happen. So if a woman tells you she had an emergency come up, give her the benefit of the doubt. In those instances, move on.

Women take time to get ready.